Wednesday, July 1, 2009

never alone...


one of my close friend describe me as someone who treasure and appreciate solitude.
he said that, although i enjoy others company... but at the same time, i also look comfortable just being by myself.

i've never given it much thought before...but i do enjoy walking by myself...
with my mp3 popped in and ready...that alone is enough.

the word 'loneliness'...to me, is just an excuse.
...a hallucination to hide the feeling of insecurity...
...a shield to avoid from getting hurt...
......

how can you be alone when there's so much people in the world.
family who cares...
family who asks for nothing in return...
or...
friends who share the same thoughts as yours...
friends with the same interests...
friends who would picked up the phone in the middle of the night...

you only need to put in some effort...
so never say that you are alone.

5 comments:

QuE^9^ said...

I am a lil bit like you but although I have a lot of friends, I feel alone becoz no one knows me 100%... ^^

moonshin said...

to me...70% is enough. knowing does not mean that they'd understand. people has many shades of color and these colours can change...give it time.. those who are your real friends will get there someday...100%.

=) thanks for sharing your thoughts with me

Delwyn said...

Hi Moonshin
It is possible to feel lonely in the midst of crowds, to feel that you are not understood or that no-one cares. We all have different quotas to be filled in the sociability area.
Some have higher needs than others, some like you and me are content at times with their own company.
Some people have been robbed of the ability to trust and therefore close people out, in order to feel safe.
It is very healthy and necessary to enjoy solitude.

Happy days

QuE^9^ said...

I wish so...^^

Relyn said...

I agree. I find myself needing time to myself. Right now, I have this whole week and I am enjoying every productive and playful minute of it.